Friday, August 17, 2007

Women fate

I feel pity for some women that they really can sacrifice everything for the man that they love. But in return can man really sacrifice like women did. I think if in rating of 10, then will be 1/10 that really can sacrifice for the women that they love.
I am sorry to say that man really are selfish. Why did I say so? ^^ Just a few examples.......If a man having another woman outside and if the wife would have found out the truth, they want the wife to forgive them and sometimes even ask them to accept the truth that they are having affair outside but inner they still love their wife so much. They haven't change the love towards the wife just that in their heart they is another woman. So their heart can love two woman on the same time. But what about if women does the same thing. I tell you, women never gets away if they have affairs outside. Either the husband will kill the wife or kill the whole family or kill the man and the wife or kill the man(if he still really loves the wife so much)Why always must be the woman that must tolerate with such a thing but not a man. I am not saying equality here. But is about the tolerance.
Another thing is that never stay together in the same house with your boyfriend unless both of you are going to get married or you are going to register as lawfully husband or wife. I have a lot of friends, when the girls started to stay together with the boyfriend. The bf tends to forget about getting married. Because they don't to commit in anything. As long as they can have the benefit of getting a wife without having to responsible for everything that they did. The man everytime tends to say that it is not the time yet to get married. But however not the time yet at least can plan together when it should be held. They don't even want to talk anything regarding wedding. Is it si hard to give a status to a woman that you love.
And if your bf is in trouble (don't care is financial, family or works problem), I am sure the side gf will definitely will be there to help their bf to get through the bad situation. And man always say what you all women knows and you can't even help me in anything. And they seems like don't want to let the gf/wife knows about their problems. I am sure we women can be a good listener and sometimes we really can help. Like Ah Wah when we just date not long, he also say that I can't help him in anything. But in the end guess what I am the one that help him to solve the problem. Who say that we women are useless. But not all man are like that but almost all of them are like that. They are too ego for not letting women to help them and like they knew everything on earth.
My friend, the bf have been taking advantage of her. I dunno somehow, I don't really like her but I am very mad to found out about the bf everytime. Somemore she still said that she can't force the bf too much if not he will get unhappy about this. I know I have been bery busybody and I also know that talk is very easy but when you are in that situation, you are same like her can't do anything but just wait
This is just the fate of women.... I suppose.

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