Reunion

My last two post was really seems like rushing to type the entry? Maybe I did not explain much in my previous two entries thats why seems like rushing. But actually I am not rushing when I typing both of the entries. Haha ;) I have to write better for my other posts to make my reader(actually only Shui Fen is reading this) more happy.
Last Sunday, 26th August 2007 is sunny good day. I have made an appointment to meet my ex-colleagues in Mid Valley. So I reach Mid Valley at 10.30am but not sharp a bit late because rushing to take a bath, dress up and the worst part is that I need to wake Ah Wah up to fetch me to Mid Valley. I intended to bring Ah Wah along but he was very sleepy and doesn't want to follow me there and scared will be bored to death. Haha.. By that time Ah Wah wake up, he still need to brush his teeth. Sigh...
Luckily although I am late to my appointment, in fact my friend Suvari reach there later than me. This is what we called Malaysian. They never been puntual to anything maybe except go to work. Wedding dinner late, LRT reaching the station also late, tuition class also late and others thing also will be late. Because this is us Malaysian, and we are used to it already. Late as always. So everytime if you make an appointment with a friend you might need to reach the place to meet up maybe 30 minutes later.
Both of us met up in DOME at South Court in Mid Valley. Man!!! The food and beverages there are damn expensives. I mean for a breakfast, I ate RM 25.00 for one person only leh. If not because of my colleagues, definitely I won't be going there to eat. The food is so-so. And drinks also so-so. We had a really nice meet up and chatting was fun with her. And roughly around 11.30am, Brendan came and we chat and laugh until the whole DOME customer and outside passer by also look at us as if like we are crazy but who cares anyway. I really enjoy that day because they are really funny and easy to get along. We chat until 3pm, then we make our move to Primavera to help Suvari to choose a high-heel shoe. Mid Valley was on sale. So I decided that on Monday I will bring Ah Wah there to buy his long sleeves shirt and his tie.
After she bought a pair of shoe, we dismiss.
Ah Wah came to fetch me with my brother, Jimsoan and my sister along. We headed to Cheras to my brother's friend saloon. My hairstylist. ;P
Ah Wah had a hair cut. Mmmm... so handsome his new haristyle. And my sis going to dye and highlight her hair for RM190.00 which I consider quite cheap. And my hair, just dunno what is going on that day actually.
I had my hair washed and the shampoo girl told me that my hair are dry. She asked my whether want to steam my hair(treatment). Then I said okie. You know what... I am steaming my hair after my hair wash and not only that actually I am buying the whole treatment cream product as well. OMG!!!! I thought I am using their shop treatment cream and I didn't know that she is going to sell me the treament product. After my treatment, I had my hair cut also because I have split end. I thought when I have to pay that time sure very expensive de. But luckily is only RM89 for my hair. RM89 for shampoo, hair cut, treatment and the treatment product. And now I have to admit that the treatment was good. Now my hair are smoother and silkier. Haha.... Joking. But it really not that dry anymore my hair. Next time I go there again I must bring along the treatment cream and make them steam my hair for me.

House Warming Party

25th August 2007, my colleagues came to my apartment. Because they keep on asking me when I am going to invite them to my house warming party. But definitely there will be no house warming party. But I invited them to my house to have fun. We work half day that day. But the time just like passing so slow because I am tired and lazy to work after on leave for two days consecutively.

Once the clock reach 1pm, my boss keep on telling my colleagues that I am going to perform my piano skills to them at my home. I really hate this. My boss always like that. I know that I can't perform well so I declined to give any performance with an excuse such as I only practise my exam pieces and did not practice any new song since. I just can't get away with it because of that because my boss will find other way to make me play a song for them. Haih.

They bought KFC to my house as lunch. After they had their lunch. OMG! They want me to play piano for them.Sigh!! Damn sien. Mu boss said since I didn't play other songs for so long then he wanted me to play my piano exam pieces for them. MOTHER... Where can like that wan? Everyone knows that exam pieces doesn't sound nice. So I have no choice but to play a song that I am familiar with. And I have to add that Esther sight reading was really really good. I admire her.

Piano

On 24th August 2007 was my piano examination, I know I can't assume that I am going to pass my Grade 7 practical exam. Because I am not doing my best in it. I could have done better if I had put more effort in it. I just don't know somehow it was me attitude to do last minute work even when I am studying that time I am having such a attitude which I myself also don't like that I am behaving like that.

But on that day, I really appreaciate that Shui Fen actually drive me there and wait for me when I am having my exam. And after that, we went to One-Utama for shopping because I wanted to find a dress for my registration day. But I just couldn't find something that is appropriate. So we change location to other place to find since we couldn't find one there. The next destination that we went was Nichi Fashion City in Sungai Besi. Since the gown is on 2nd floor so we headed there so that we won't be wasting our time. I try a few gowns there, but I have to tell that the gowns really sucks. And somemore the air-cond was not functioning well. Somehow the air that was blow out smells like pepper spray. I am serious about this. And anyone that go nears that place definitely will cough like hell. Because Shui Fen and me experienced the same thing. And the service there are really bad. The aunty that works there talk more than serving. So we just don't want to try anymore and we move on to another place.

Shui Fen brought me to Bridal Shop in Jalan Loke Yew. And the first shop that we went in was very nice decorated(what I mean is the front shop design). We went into the shop and the lady tell us to wait for a while because someone are trying on the wedding gown. We are getting more and more pissed off when we already waited like for may be 30 minutes. I just can't wait anymore. We walked out of that shop and go to the next wedding shop located next to the asshole shop only. And the service of this shop was tremendous. We just stand at the front door and having a look on the wedding photo when the sales lady just walk out to offer some help to us. So we told her that we wanted to rent a gown for wedding reception. And she chose three gowns. I chose one of it and RM300 for the gown. On 29th September 2007, I am going to that shop to collect the gown so that I can wear on 6th October 2007.

Inconsiderate Boss

I suppose that I am god damn lucky to have such a nice boss. My boss whenever he is eating lunch with us, he pay for our lunch. Whenever my family have seom problems, he will lend a helpful hand and advice to us. And if you have any problems, he will try to find a solution for you. And there is this one time that my boss even offer to pay for my college fees but definitely there is something in return that is I will for him longer and can't leave the company so soon. But unfortunately I already decided not to take that course due to some other reason. I mean I am really lucky when I compare myself with others people boss. Because my boss is one in a million good boss. I am glad that I can get into this company. Anyway, somehow some people might not so lucky.

Ah Wah boss, I got to tell you he is the worst and kiam siap boss ever I have seen. His company got two boss. One is small boss and one is bigger boss. Once he decided to leave the company and join another company so he told the small boss that he will be leaving next month. But then the small boss said that he will increase his salary to make him stay. After 1 month, Ah Wah ask him back regarding the salary, then he said,"Big boss said this year profit is not much so can't increase your salary.." I was like what the hell....He did promise and in the end he break his promise. If he can't afford to increase people salary then just be honest. OMG!!! Anyway then this time the small boss daughther are having this one month old party(mun yuet chau) and they need to go back to Ipoh from Saturday to Monday. And he told Ah Wah that the three days will be an holiday somemore is unpaid leave. So Ah Wah found a part time on Saturday. And today the big boss found out that he work on Saturday. And make him stay alone in the factory to do all the work himself. He feels that if you like to work that much then I make you work alone in the factory and complete all the work yourself without anybody help. I was so pissed off when heard about it. Can't people just work part time when they are having an off day what's the matter with him. He is such an asshole guy I have ever seen. Damn it.

Women fate

I feel pity for some women that they really can sacrifice everything for the man that they love. But in return can man really sacrifice like women did. I think if in rating of 10, then will be 1/10 that really can sacrifice for the women that they love.

I am sorry to say that man really are selfish. Why did I say so? ^^ Just a few examples.......If a man having another woman outside and if the wife would have found out the truth, they want the wife to forgive them and sometimes even ask them to accept the truth that they are having affair outside but inner they still love their wife so much. They haven't change the love towards the wife just that in their heart they is another woman. So their heart can love two woman on the same time. But what about if women does the same thing. I tell you, women never gets away if they have affairs outside. Either the husband will kill the wife or kill the whole family or kill the man and the wife or kill the man(if he still really loves the wife so much)Why always must be the woman that must tolerate with such a thing but not a man. I am not saying equality here. But is about the tolerance.

Another thing is that never stay together in the same house with your boyfriend unless both of you are going to get married or you are going to register as lawfully husband or wife. I have a lot of friends, when the girls started to stay together with the boyfriend. The bf tends to forget about getting married. Because they don't to commit in anything. As long as they can have the benefit of getting a wife without having to responsible for everything that they did. The man everytime tends to say that it is not the time yet to get married. But however not the time yet at least can plan together when it should be held. They don't even want to talk anything regarding wedding. Is it si hard to give a status to a woman that you love.

And if your bf is in trouble (don't care is financial, family or works problem), I am sure the side gf will definitely will be there to help their bf to get through the bad situation. And man always say what you all women knows and you can't even help me in anything. And they seems like don't want to let the gf/wife knows about their problems. I am sure we women can be a good listener and sometimes we really can help. Like Ah Wah when we just date not long, he also say that I can't help him in anything. But in the end guess what I am the one that help him to solve the problem. Who say that we women are useless. But not all man are like that but almost all of them are like that. They are too ego for not letting women to help them and like they knew everything on earth.

My friend, the bf have been taking advantage of her. I dunno somehow, I don't really like her but I am very mad to found out about the bf everytime. Somemore she still said that she can't force the bf too much if not he will get unhappy about this. I know I have been bery busybody and I also know that talk is very easy but when you are in that situation, you are same like her can't do anything but just wait

This is just the fate of women.... I suppose.

Admiration

One of Ah Wah friend announce that they are going to get married in December this year. I just don't know why somehow whenever I heard one by one his friend get married, everytime when they announced it out I have a feeling of jealousy or admiration. Even myself also not sure what was that feeling all about. I just feel so uncomfortable.

And this time, his friend have been dating the girlfriend for only one year plus and now they already announce that they are getting married. What is this feeling that keep on making me feel like I am so left out. I should be very happy that one of his friend have already found the other half to spend the life time together.

I am not sure whether is it every women dreams to dress in wedding gown but I am definitely dreaming of that day to come where I was treated like a princess and for the whole day, I will be dressing so beautifully. I really hope that my wedding day will be the most special day of my life.

But I really feel that if they have been dating for only one year and more, how will they know that they can tolerate each other so much. Because for the starting in relationship, both parties can tolerate each other so much that they don't feel any uneasiness. But when the relationship getting older and older, something might not be the same again anymore. By that time, you will feel like he doesn't love that much because the things that he can tolerate seems like he cannot tolerate anymore, is it because he doesn't love that much anymore. Maybe I am just thinking too much. I think I must really congratulate them and wish them to have ever lasting love. ^^

Just hope that when my wedding day have arrive, everything will go on as smoothly as can be..

Why does she need to act like that?

I have to do this on my blog.....
I just don't like to complain in my blog about other people but today I just can't hold on to myself and I need to burst it out.Give me some comment on how should I react on her again.

She is just being so selfish. All that she do, the priority she will give to herself first. Why she can do that????

Today we ordered Domino's pizza. We order 2 regular pizza. So one is Aloha Chicken(same like Hawaiian Chicken in Pizza Hut) and one is super deluxe. So left two small pieces and each pieces are different flavour. So I ask her whether which she wanted to eat. She said she want the Aloha Chicken flavour.(Mother, everytime she will choose the delicious one and the lousy one she will leave it to other people.She just don't care) Okie!!! Fine... Since I know that from the beginning I am the one that ask her first. Fair....The most angry part was when she was having the slice of Aloha Chicken she throw out all the pineapples and I ask her why she throw it all out. Then she sheepishly smile and answered me,"Oh, because I feel like my period is coming so I can't have pineapple." Then I straightly said to her,"Then if that is the case, why do you choose to have the Aloha Chicken?" You know I am damn piss off with her attitude. But everytime I just don't want to hate people that much because I think everyone is not perfect. But not until like that right. She is bladdy damn selfish....**pif** That is not just one thing that I judge her to death sentence but she did al lot of selfish thing that I really can't bear with her attitude. OMG!!!!!

The second thing that she reveal her selfishness is when we are having KFC that time. There is one time my boss bought a barrel of KFC for us to have. Then you know what, not only her alone. She and another girl also pick from the barrel (what I mean is not pick should be the correct word should be choose from the barrel) a drumstick. Then after they finish their drumstick, they try to find another one in the barrel. If don't have, then they only have one piece of chicken breast or thigh then they are done. They won't eat anymore because they don't like to eat other part. Why they want to be that choosy? They choose all the good parts and left those not nice part for other people to eat. Is it a good nature??? That is why both of them are so good relation.

I am so so sooooo sorry for complaining this. I am just about to burst off.

Thanks for coming

Shui Fen, I am glad that you make your time available to come my house.

And thanks for the banana cake and tarts. I love talking to you. Because I can chat with you regarding on anything. As always, we can chat for a long long time non-stop everytime we meet. Just love it so much. And just to let you know, I am more than welcome if you want to find me. So don't worry you are not bothering me at all. On my piano examination date, my exam time will be on 8.30am. So after that, we go shopping to find dress. If I can find something that is cheap and nice. ^^

Cheerz...

Wedding Registration

On 4th August 2007, Saturday, me and Ah Wah went to Tian Hou Temple Marriage Registration Office to hand in the forms for them to process. Actually we decided to take 9th September 2007(Sunday) because they have this event that a lot of couples will be registering together. And the process fees will be RM 140 which is quite expensive. And we thought of taking that day because it means 'cheong cheong kau kau' means together forever.
We reach the temple at 10.30am and we took number and waited for our turn to arrive. There are plenty of couples there waiting as well. When it reaches our turn, we hand over our documents when the auntie suddenly ask both of us for our passport size photograph..Oooppsss!!!!! We actually forgot about it. So we ask the auntie to certified true copy for our other documents first then only we bring our photograph. Mother!!! She said cannot and we must go home to take our photograph, come back and take a new number again. OMG!!!!So this time, we went home to take our photograph and bring my brother along this time. We took a number from the machine but now the problem is the machine that provide us with the number are out of order. So no choice, we just wait inside the office for our turn. After we handed our documents, we are ask to head to another office but inside the temple to ask for a declaration which cost us RM26. And you know what, the temple only help people that are buddhist for both of the couple to register. Don't care larh. We headed back to the registration office to book our registration date. We choose 9th September 2007 but the damn auntie said,"For that day arr,both of you and the witnesses have to reach here at 7.30am.And you have to wait for the ceremony and song singging before you actually can register." So since she talked like that we decided to consider about the date again. And this time we decided to take 6th October 2007. Another problem appears, that is the last date that we can choose is on the 4th October 2007 because we have to choose a date within 2 months from the date we hand in our form. OMG!!!! Help me.....And luckily the Indian guy was a nice guy, he said we can come on Monday that is the 6th August 2007 to hand in the form and then we can choose 6th October 2007 to register. :)
Today, I went to the registration office to pay the handling fees that is RM99 and we book 6th October 2007 to register and it will be held at 9.15am. Damn happy.. Wee-hoo....

Something to laugh about

Although lately my life have been quite miserable but on the other side I still can find something interesting in my life actually.
First case
You know my birthday was in the early month of July. My collegues in my office actually forgot about my birthday so they said they will replace it with having a dinner after office hour. And we decided to go Shabu-Shabu. And Shui Fen, I bet you remember that day I ask you about the Shabu-Shabu telephone number. That was in the middle of July already. And I told them that no need to celebrate since my birthday have been like so many days back then. Then they still insist want to celebrate my birthday there. They actually suppose to bring the cake to be cut there but the person who suppose to bring it forgot to bring it along so they decided to cut the cake on Friday in office. And so coincidence that on Saturday will be Glen's(my employer's daugther's husband) birthday. And he thought that we brought the cake for his birthday. And he thank us for bringing the cake. And he even sing the birthday song like this,"Happy Birthday to me, Happy Birthday to me, Happy Birthday to me....., Happy Birthday to me." And suddenly his wife said, "Aren't we are celebrating Anna'a birthday as well?" To me is better they forgot because I am embarassed when all people are looking at me and sing the birthday song for me. And that time I can remember that when I am in form six that time, Melissa and Sheng Wa bought a cake for me and we did celebrate my birthday in school. I am very happy that time. Okie...., Back to my story. Then they started singing for me this time. And while we are eating the cake and have some chat. Esther(Glen's wife) said that tomorrow she is throwing a birthday party for Glen. And she ordered an erotic cake.
Esther:They do all type of eroctic cakes, normally they will made a huge breast cake but this time I ordered a vagina cake for Glen*giggles*.
Glen: Are you kidding me? How do you aspect me to eat such a cake?
Esther: Well, it is ment to be like that.
Glen: Ok, tell me. Shaved or unshave?
Esther : I don't know.
Glen: Oh my goodness.
It was like when we heard that she ordered such a cake, we burst out laughing. I suppose all of us won't do that to our boyfriend or husband, rite? *LOL*
Second Case
Today me and my collegues are going to KFC to have our lunch there. So my office hired one part-time accountant where she only come in once a week and she is sitting in a room. So this time when we go to lunch, we all get ready with our bag to hop into the car and drove to KFC. When suddenly, Alvin(my collegues) remember that Shi Minh(our accountant, we use to call her swimming) is still in the office and we totally forgot about her. Then we quickly ran up to the office and open the door. And my employer said to her,"Aiyah, we totally forgot about you. We even switch off the lights and locked the door. Luckily Alvin remembers that you are in the office*LOL*." Then we are separated into two cars. (p.s Actually I don't like the accountant that much because everytime when we go for lunch that time, she always talk like she knew everything ^__^ I even feel like clapping my hands when I know that we forgot about her *evil* ;P) Then when in KFC that time, my employer repeat again that she should thank Alvin for reminding him that she is still in the office and besides that he will laugh as though it was very funny. And she just layan him and laugh a bit.*roll eyes* And this is not the first time we forgot about her and we always laugh that we forgot about her totally.
Third Case
When I am in Alvin's car, so I ask Alvin," Eh, ngo ke luin leng mm leng(Eh, my curls look nice or not?)" Then he is like 'What?' Then I ask again. Then he started laughing. And guess what........
He actually thought that I was asking him,"Eh, ngo ke lin leng mm leng(Eh, my breast look pretty or not) Then my other collegues also laughing like hell. Hmmm... Maybe because I am having flu that is why...
Fourth Case
Today I call a lawyer firm to ask the clerk to fax me information. And she ask me who is on the line. So I reply, " Anna here". Then she fax me the information that I need with a fax cover written 'Attention : Miss Anna Hia'. Then myself started laughing because I didn't know that she mistaken that I say here=my surname. *LOL*

Pyscho

I do not understand the feelings that a woman feels when actually they met with 'flasher' or 'those sexually obsessed man'. Last time I used to hear from my mother that she read from the newspaper that those idiotic guy masturbating in front of the ladies in streets or the flasher came in front of you and just show you his private part.Have you tried to imagine lets say one day you would encounter someone like that? What will you do? Scream?? Last time when I heard stories like that I will say,"I will jokingly let him know that his penis are so small so don't you feel embarass to show something that is so small for other people to see?"But not until I really experienced it on 31st July 2007. OMG!!!! Why do I have to go through something like this?Yesterday after work, I walk with my collegue to my car which I parked on the back street of my office.So before I walk to my car, I stop at the T-junction to chat with my collegue when this man was waving to me. I was like a bit uneasy because I don't like guys that I don't know talk to me or whistle or play dumb stuff. Then when I finish chatting with my collegue so we say goodbye to each other and wave goodbye and this idiot guy he wave to me again.So I feel something was not right. I quickly hop on my car and lock the door. Then I look on to my back mirror where I can't see him anymore and I thought I was safe that time. Then when my collegue drove off her car and the guy started showing up and walking towards my car. What was in you mind right now?What I was thinking is 'Oh No'. So I quickly start my engine and take away my windscreen shade. Before I do that, he was standing quite far from my car back where I can see from my back mirror that he was taking out his penis and start rubbing it. *SHOCK* I look on my back mirror is not because I wanted to see him but is because I scared he will attack me. So I have keep on track and see what he is up to.Then I drove off. I don't wish to see him anymore. Please don't appear in my office area anymore.

And now I know that if I saw pyscho guy I won't act like what I say. I am nervous and panic.

Mood = Weather

After I move out from my house, my mood are so moody, but definitely not because of cant' handle my things on my own. Just that I am sad for everything that happened on me.Lately the rain was pouring like in the monsoon season. But monsoon season was not here yet. It was raining everyday. And now I am having flu and cough.BAD!!! I am feeling depress and moody. But you know like everyone says everyday starts with a smile. And I am trying that, it works out not bad.Everything that falls upon me is not what I wanted to happen. But when I heard my employer says to my collegues during lunch was, " Anna life are so colourful*LOL*!!". You can guess how piss off I am.MOTHER!!! As if everything that happens in my family I really wanted. Abnormal family relationship, not close related to my father, sister feel not like a part of the family and lastly my brother being robbed by a robber. Is this what I wanted??? If I no need to let them know all of this and I can take leave, definitely I won't be choosing to tell them actually what happen in my family.I am so sad that in this year bad things keep on falling on me non-stop. Is this the way the GOD test my endurance or it is just that I am not tough enough. I know that complaining in life won't help you to solve problem but at least I can express what deep down inside in my heart I feel about it.I do believe that in this world there are none out there wanted something bad to happen to the family to get attention of outsiders. But anyway, through all these obstacles, I know I will stand up and still fight for the life that I wanted to have.Thanks for all the care that my friend have given. ;)