In my office, there was 4 girls(Including myself) and 1 boy working. So out of 4 girls, three of them having some problems to deal with the future mother in law which include me as well. Swt!!! I am not sure whether next time when I am old that time will I be like my future mother in law to be that stubborn to insist the son to stay with her after get married. It is not that I don't want to stay with her but it was just too many things to consider. Now even I have been staying with my family member since I was small but argument can't be avoided. I just don't want some argument with my future mother in law. If we do argue, Ah Wah will be the middle man that don't know what to do. Not only that. But if I want to explain will be a very long long blog. Anyway the main reason I post this blog is not to talk about myself but about my collegues. Their future mother in law will be harder to stay with compare to mine.
At least at first when she does not like me that time are for a few months only then she treat me so nice. I know she has been treating me like her own daughther.
My collegues, both of them have been dating the boyfriend for 8/9 years but still the boyfriend mother still can't accept them. What the!!! I mean for so many years they have been together, the mother should be able to see that they are for real and for so many years together suppose should get married already. Why still cannot accept them? Sometimes I hope that I can chat with them to understand what they really are thinking. Because if we did not think in their position, forever we will think that they shouldn't have done this and that.
Any clue?
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to me, sometimes it's also quite hard to tolerate MY OWN mother ALL the time. imagine have to tolerate someone else's mother next time. =.=
So you must be prepared if let say 1 day CJ make up his mind that both of you will be staying together with his mother. And you know, your future mother in law will nag if you don't do house chores. :X
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